“One day, someone will come into my life. Who are you ? I will own them. When ? I will wait for you… Where ? Little matter, since I know that you will come. One day, someone” said Elodie, admitting as well that his relationship is over. A separation which does not prevent the young woman to stay strong.
“Nobody will come to save me, nobody but me”
In his long message, Elodie is also sent to women reminding them that they are not the men who are the stars of their lives, but themselves. She also recalled that the image of the knight on his white horse coming to save a damsel in distress is only a tale and not the reality : “no one will come to save me, nobody except me. Then I address myself to you ladies, the heroine of your stories, it is you. Please, save yourself because nobody else will do it”.
“Get up, take you by the hand, position yourself in front a mirror and admire this brave woman, bold, beautiful and intelligent as you are. You have need of you, then do not. You are your solution” added that you follow-up in the season 3 of Married at first sight, before we discuss about the prince charming : “Wake up, prince charming is a little capricious so that you don’t deserve”.
Despite the highs and the lows, the romances that start and then stop, Elodie is a firm believer that loving yourself is the most important : “Then yes, life will dent, but it survives, it survives still. Fight for you ! Attention I do not say that this is going to be easy, this is going to be terribly difficult. You’re going to have to confront yourself with yourself, forgive yourself, learn to love yourself. But this will by far be your most beautiful battle”.
Teilor Stone has been a reporter on the news desk since 2013. Before that she wrote about young adolescence and family dynamics for Styles and was the legal affairs correspondent for the Metro desk. Before joining The Bobr Times, Teilor Stone worked as a staff writer at the Village Voice and a freelancer for Newsday, The Wall Street Journal, GQ and Mirabella. To get in touch, contact me through my firstname.lastname@example.org 1-800-268-7116